Hokkien 福建见证集 | 一支草,一点露 (65)
Hokkien Testimony #65
Today we welcome you to the 65th testimony in our Hokkien Harvest series. Each week we have different people from different churches share their stories with us. Everyone has their own special story of how God has changed their life. Today Pastor James Lim interviews Sister Xu Ai Hua who will be sharing about God’s work in her husband’s life . Let’s listen to Sister Xu Ai Hua share this personal Hokkien story. An English summary is also provided below.
Sister Xu Ai Hua’s Testimony:
My husband and I have been married for 40 something years. The relationship in our marriage was pretty rocky, and he had a bad temper and at times could be mean. There were times that I just couldn’t take it so I would leave the house. I did return home, and the first time I returned was because my youngest son was getting married. However, as far as my husband’s personality and habits, nothing was different. I was there for about six months and then once again I couldn’t stand it and left the house. The first time that I returned I was not a Christian; however, the second time I was staying at my daughter’s house, and I came back to visit. I seldom went anywhere except to go see my granddaughter. I usually only visited them once a year. However, I received a phone call from my granddaughter and she invited me to attend their small group party. I told her I would go with her because I had planned to go visit her anyway.
So in a few days my granddaughter took me with her to the small group party. We sang songs and really had a good time. Then they shared and prayed for me. I began to cry and they asked me if I wanted to accept Jesus as my personal Savior. I really didn’t know how to do that or anything about it. I didn’t think about my husband’s response or anything else, but I agreed.
A couple of months after I accepted Christ, my husband asked me to return home. He was diagnosed with liver cancer. That was difficult for me because part of me didn’t want to go back, but I was conflicted. I didn’t know how to take care of him and do what needed to be done. I prayed about it but it seemed that God just didn’t answer me. Finally, I prayed that if God wanted me to do this that I would see my husband in a dream, and I did. That was God’s answer for me, and I was able to drift off to sleep. However, I just was having such a hard time, and I asked God a second time to appear to me and allow my husband to speak with me. That definitely let me know that God wanted me to go home to be at my husband’s side.
I told my daughter that I was going back home. She actually was the first in our family to become a Christian and her father was not happy about her decision. But I gave her freedom to make her own decision. So at this time in my life, she was concerned about me returning. She had a heavy heart and suggested that she go see her father first, before I returned. So she did go see him and let him know that I had made a decision to accept Christ. He was very angry and once again lost his temper. I didn’t pray or anything, but decided that I shouldn’t return home. However, after a few days I had a third dream that depicted my husband falling and two people helping him. I really didn’t understand the dream and called a friend who had been a Christian for some time, and they told me that they felt I should return home. This could be the opportunity for me to lead my husband to trust Christ.
To make a long story short, the doctor said that he had about six months to live. I was concerned about him and attended a Hokkien service at our church. My husband is Hokkien and the service was all in Hokkien. After a few months my husband was moved to tears and eventually we went to church together. He had the opportunity to hear many testimonies. However, after that he didn’t want to go back, but I continued to pray. One day at church the pastor led us to kneel and pray for anyone on our hearts who was not yet a Christian. So I kneeled and prayed for my husband. When I returned home my husband told me that a man appeared to him and told him a lot of things. He said that he didn’t remember all that was said to him, but the Lord stood in front of him and reached out and touched his thigh. My husband told me that it was very strange and then the man suddenly disappeared. I was very moved because I knew that the Lord had appeared to my husband. I knew that Jesus is indeed God. He didn’t say good-bye but came to visit my husband, and I told him that Jesus loves him. I told him that Jesus also wants to save him and heal him as well. I also told him that he needed to open his heart and receive Jesus as his personal Savior.
After Jesus appeared to him, my husband was willing to go to church with me. However, once again he did not want to go back. So I told him how blessed he was that Jesus had appeared to him, and he showed him how much he loved him by personally appearing to him. So I encouraged him to accept Jesus, so that he would have peace and be healed. I told him that I could pray with him to accept Christ, but he refused. So I contacted the pastor, and he came and prayed for him. At that time my husband couldn’t even open his mouth, but suddenly the phone rang, and I went to answer it. Following that the Lord worked and he could talk and accepted the Lord Jesus. Another very special thing also occurred. He was to be baptized on January 4th, and the day before he swallowed a fish bone that was stuck in his throat. However, once again the Lord took care of him. Through prayer once again the Lord answered our prayers and his throat was okay. Eventually, he did pass away and the Lord took him home to be with him.
Pastor Lim:
Through all this journey God showed how much he loved Ai Hua’s husband. In the beginning he opposed accepting Christ. Even though he refused to believe, God still made a way for him and gave him further opportunities to trust in him. Sometimes we are so obstinate, but God loves us even more diligently. This is definitely a unique testimony. In the beginning he worshiped idols as well as his ancestors, and absolutely refused to trust Jesus. However, through all of this, God gave Sister Xu wisdom to know how to manage this situation, and her husband was able to open his heart and trust in Jesus.
Today we have listened to this testimony, but unfortunately we don’t have enough time to share all the details. However, simply put, because this wife trusted Christ and loved her husband, she poured out her heart in prayer and looked for opportunities to share the Gospel with him. So we see how God step by step was with him until he left this world. As we look back over all that has transpired in this testimony we definitely are grateful for all that the Lord has done in their lives. If any of you today have a hardened heart like this and refuse to believe, we encourage you not to be like this. Instead, let Jesus Christ come into your heart. You will discover that this Lord is really great, and he loves you to the very end, that is forever. Please follow me as I pray:
Lord Jesus, I thank you. You are the Lord God. At this time I ask you to forgive my sin. Please come into my heart and be my Lord and Savior. Allow my life to change and give me a new direction. We pray in the name of Jesus, Amen.
May the Lord bless you.